WHAT IFs...


Do you guys all always look back on things that dissapoint us? I am sure u guys do...and then we always ask this question " What if I did not do like this?" " What if he didnt say that word".." What if I took the job".." What if I did this way...".." What if I listen to my friends".." What if I never went to the part".....

all the what ifs...but haf u guys ever stop and think..wont life be better if we just stop thinking of the possibilities that MIGHT happen IF we did that and what not? Why not embrace what already has already been done and just look forward and take it as a lesson or as a guide?? Why do we constantly look back and contemplate on mistakes that will hurt us even more?

Believe in regrets? Actually I do, but at times I do think, why regret?? Maybe God has already sktech that path for us to go through so we learn from it....I remember someone told me this " Life is our teacher" Life's a bitch, but it teaches us to know what is right from wrong, equaility, to love and to hate, to forgive and to forget, to fall and to pick up the pieces and to be stronger each time..
Back to regrets, ever regreted things you have donee? I did..once...my biggest mistake..one regret that i cant take back..i just cant shake it off..but, if it wasnt for that, I will not have what I have now, friends, wisdom, strenght, courage, and experience..I will not be where I am right now..

so friends, when you guys go through the " what if(s)" dilemma, stop and think for a second..why put urself in so much agony, when there are so many things in front of u to enjoy..to love..and the best part..to welcome them..

stop looking back and look for the light, coz there is always one...