ECLIPSE ! WOOO JACOB! OLALA!

I went and watch eclipse yesterday with the BF. OMG! The movie is just AWESOME! Jacob is so hot, Edward is just so, charming. Well he is not good looking but I like the way he care and love Bella. Sigh.
Anywhow at one part of the movie, I suddenly find myself understanding why Bella choose Edward, despite what she would get herself into, how much things she sacrifice and what not.
Now the question is this, would you be with someone you love more than anything in the world, but the catch is you would not have the life you had right before, you may have to sacrifice your friends, maybe also your family and maybe some of your dreams.
Or
Would you be with someone, where you can be whoever you like, yourself and all, friends , you don't have to change anything. Just yourself, but the you don't love this person enough than the other.
So what do you think? Be with someone who completes you no matter what happens and whether the outcome is good or bad or,.....the other road?
Let's change the topic, I am starting my new job tmrw! * Screams! Full time Front Office. No more coming back at working for 4 or 5 hours at night, no more too little hours, no more crazy chef. YAY!.....NOT!! I think I will miss the flexible hours and all the short hours I get, but on the other hand, I need the money, I need the experience, so, here I go!
Im off, sleep. Morning shift tomorrow. Please God, hope it goes well! 8 Hours here I come!