WHY MEN CHEAT AND LIE ABOUT IT.
Many out there would have dealt with this before. Boyfriend or husband cheating behind their partners back. I was curious why would they do this due to some events that happen and triggered, so here goes, why men cheat and lie about it.
Most women are good women, emphasis MOST, not all, most women. They cook, clean, take care of the kids, and attend to all her partners need, regardless how screwed up he can be, but that is women.
So it is worth it? Obviously not. One woman's love is priceless and words cannot begin to describe the greatness of it. And on top of that, when we add in a man's insecurity, it's really more heartbreaking to the men. Men do not want their woman to be with anyone else cept him, but yet he want to go fuck around.
Why men cant be honest. Simply this, men believe what woman don't know won't hurt her. Believe me, i hear this line thousands of times, but men do not know, how much it will hurt her when she finds out that it had happen for a long time. Sure, cheating hurts, but it wont hurt her if she does not find out. This is a fuck up and twisted logic that allows men to cheat. Irrational huh?!
Men knows woman cant take the pain and also maybe, MAYBE regretting that the woman fall for them. See, this is because cheating men know they will cheat, and a men who cheated once, will always cheat. I may be wrong in some cases, but majority they will. So they lie to cover the infidelity, though they have been caught. And ladies, men that has been expose of what they did, will not be ready to face the true self, simply cause of ego. He refuse or maybe not ready to look into his mistake and admit he is a cheat inside.
This is a most common case, they just want a new exciting event in their life. Men eat steaks every night, bound to wonder off for a hamburger.
Reasons of men cheating are much more intricate than those reasons above, but nevertheless no reason is good enough reason for being dishonest and unfaithful. And as the saying goes, " when the cat is out of the house, the mouse comes out and play "
Lets move away from this topic, its putting alot of rubbish into my head now. On the lighter note, with all the events that has been happening in my life in such notice, I got myself thinking a lot. And it made me realise I miss one part of my life so much. I may regret saying this, I may be wrong too, but I do miss my single life. The fact I dont have to worry so much, I dont have to think, I have a carefree life, fuck care life, I don't have that burden or responsibility more like it that I need to carry everyday. I am not saying I miss my clubbing days or days I am out dating a guy, I am just saying I miss that portion of my single life.
Yes, I agree totally, being in love is the greatest things, but it comes with a price. Many may be expensive, some may be reasonable. Please do not judge me when I say this or jump into conclusion, but I just want to be happy again. Blah. I shall stop.
I am still lost, I am still clueless, I just need one sign of guidance. Man I need to go to church again.
